For most parents, the task of raising kids is daunting. There was probably no formal training taken or college degree associated with child development that you could draw on. Your only experience comes from your family of origin and was definitely imperfect. And finally, you and your spouse probably grew up in families that used different techniques and practices.
You are not alone. The following quotes about parenting illustrate that the process is not easy. That even though you had negative experiences growing up, these can be useful in helping you now. There are no short cuts. Parenting continues until your kids are adults, and maybe in some ways, beyond this stage.
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Giving instruction for living
"Don't wait for a more convenient time to instruct your kids. The older they get, the harder it is to hold on to the lessons."
"If your children honestly don't seem to get what you are telling them, they are probably being blocked by your attitude and delivery."
"The present is the best time to instruct. Stop and invest in your children's future."
Don't hide the past
"Your past failures have an ongoing value. The pain and suffering you experienced are great teachers for your children."
"The past has its consequences, but remind your kids that they are forgiven and not chained to the past."
"The toys your children play with today are more complicated, but the lessons to be learned are still the same."
Discipline your children faithfully
"Managing your children is a full time job. The expense of doing it well will cost you."
"Stay vigilant as you watch your children. Watch carefully how they respond to discipline."
"Discipline takes great wisdom. You want obedience, but at the same time, still get full respect from your kids."
Watch your own behavior
"If you live one way, but insist on another for your children, it will embitter them against you."
"A parent who did not learn growing up will most likely leave the same legacy for their children."
"Ask yourself the question. Is the discipline in the best interest of my children or is it for self gratitude?"
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